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Parenting is enjoyable, but it also carries a great deal of responsibility, and even minor errors can have a negative impact on your child. Before we proceed, we must first define parenting.
Parenting is defined by the National Library of Medicine (NLM) as the task of raising children and providing them with the material and emotional care they need to advance their physical, emotional, cognitive, and social development. It is referred to as bad parenting when parents fail to do so.
Most parents are unaware that their everyday actions significantly impact their children. A great deal of research is being done in this area. According to Ariel Kalil, a leading developmental psychologist and co-director of the Behavioral Insights and Parenting (BIP) Lab at the University of Chicago, finds that parents are the most influential people in children’s lives.
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Each parent has a unique approach to interacting with and guiding their children. This bond generally establishes a child’s morals, principles, and behavior.
There is no such thing as a bad parent, however, it is worth noting that both external and internal factors influence children’s behavior, the most important of which is parental behavior: how they respond to their children’s actions matters most.
Various studies have classified parenting styles into three, four, five, or more psychological constructs. The NLM (National Library of Medicine) divides parenting into four categories: authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, and uninvolved.
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This article will go over various types of bad parenting and how to improve:
1) Negligent parents
Children will not even discuss their problems with you if you are neglectful. So, you must nurture your children with love, attention, and affection, all of which are necessary for a child’s healthy brain development.
When they are sad, they expect more. Spend time with children instead of electronic devices so that if they have any problems, they can confide in you and you can help them overcome those difficulties. As a result, having two-way communication channels with children is critical to ensuring that you are aware of what is going on in their lives.
2) Perfectionists and overbearing parents
Parents who have this type of perfectionism project their unrealistic expectations onto their children. A parent with this type of perfectionism is likely to be dissatisfied all of the time, creating a tense and controlling home environment.
Children suffer as a result of perfectionist parents. This type of parenting is based on cause and effect: if you are perfect, we will love you; otherwise, we will not. This is a reckless attitude. Every child requires unconditional love, and parents should nurture their innate qualities.
3) Overreacting
In today’s world, everyone is pressed for time and stressed, but this should not affect your relationship with your children. In many cases, when your children make mistakes, their parents react aggressively; they yell, abuse, insult, and so on.
According to a Health Day article, verbal abuse can lead to a negative self-image, self-destructive behavior, antisocial behavior, and delayed development.
Children seek security and comfort within the four walls of their homes, but this behavior makes them feel unloved and lonely, which can permanently scar them.
4) Emotional Abuse – Refraining from speaking to children
Refraining from speaking to children as a form of punishment can have negative psychological effects, as it can cause children to feel isolated, misunderstood, and unsupported. It can also damage their self-esteem and self-worth, and lead to feelings of anxiety and depression.
It’s important to remember that punishment should be used as a way to teach children appropriate behavior, rather than as a means to inflict emotional pain or distress. Instead of withholding communication, it may be more effective to set clear boundaries and communicate openly with children about their behavior and the consequences of their actions.
It’s also important to model healthy communication and emotional expression in order to help children learn how to effectively manage their emotions and communicate with others.
5) Corporal or physical punishment
Corporal or physical punishment is defined by the UN Committee on the Rights of the Child, which oversees the Convention on the Rights of the Child, as “any punishment in which physical force is used and intended to cause some degree of pain or discomfort, however light.”
Physical violence as a form of discipline or punishment by parents is neither healthy nor appropriate. Using physical force can make children feel unloved, discouraged, and low in self-worth, and it can have long-term consequences such as rudeness and difficulty managing emotions.
Physical punishment can also have a negative impact on the parent-child relationship and undermine trust. Rather than using physical force, parents should establish clear boundaries and communicate openly with their children about appropriate behavior. Parents must also model healthy behaviors and manage their own emotions in order to teach their children how to cope with and manage their own emotions. Parents must be firm but not aggressive.
All of the aforementioned actions have a significant impact on children’s nature, attitude, development, and behavior, which is harmful to both children and parents.
- Kids make mistakes and learn from them. It happens to every child. Instead of punishing your children, be patient, accept their mistakes, and help them grow. If they are punished for their mistakes, they will feel depressed and defeated.
- Spend quality time with your children because it encourages them to be expressive and open-minded.
- Pampering should be done, but not excessively so, depending on the circumstances. Children should understand what is right and wrong.
- Every parent makes mistakes, and instead of judging them or their parenting practices, it is important to focus on finding ways to support and assist parents in their efforts to raise healthy and well-adjusted children.
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